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Apparently, Your Figure is Everyone’s Moral Issue: 5 Ways Pushing the Fitness Ideal is More About Hate then Health

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[Preface: Before I can unleash the floodgates to a barrage of criticism, I want to make clear that this is NOT saying that fitness is bad, that people who work on their figure are bad, that fitness shouldn't be encouraged, or that there is no good way to encourage people to be fit/healthy. I merely hope to point out some of the ways we justify harassing people for not fitting into the mold that we want them to. There, now, floodgates open]

I’m sure it comes as no surprise to anyone that the majority of Americans don’t lead the healthiest of lifestyles. We drink, we stress, and we don’t sleep enough. Somehow, though, the health issues that seem to strongly illicit a moral outrage and condemnation towards those who suffer from them, are those believed to be most strongly tied to obesity. When reading Beauty Redefined’s article, “Why ‘Fitspiration’ isn’t so Inspirational”, which addresses how fitness images often focus too much on appearance rather than health and can inspire body shame and unhealthy methods to reach the “fit” looking goal, I came across comments such as these:

“As long it is inspiring people to get off their lazy butts and start working out I see nothing wrong with those Fitsperation photos and messages. Obesity is continuing to increase and I am not saying we shouldn’t all love our bodies, but we shouldn’t promote self acceptance when a change needs to be made to get healthy.”

“… these images “inspire body shame”, and maybe they do, but if that is something that gets people motivated to loose the weight than it has accomplished its goal. As far as girls dying from being too skinny, I guarantee you that there are a lot more people in the US who died from being too fat than from too skinny. Not to mention the burden that is put on the healthcare system from treating obesity related illnesses.”

“If these advertisements are the tipping point that convince 10 Americans to get off their duff and work out and eat well, that’s a start.”

“I wouldn’t look at obese people negativity if it wasn’t unhealthy and if I didn’t have to pay for their healthcare. But we have tons of proof that it is very unhealthy and we have a system where the most fit and healthy person if forced to pay for all of the medical care that goes along with being obese.”

Now, I know the comments section on just about every website is usually filled with the nastiest and troll-iest of people, but the sentiment here about people who don’t fit the “fit” image is quite common. So, lets go over a few reasons these attitudes have little ground to stand on for justification.

1. The animosity is mostly directed to overweight and obese people, instead of out-of-shape people as a whole: Fortunately, it seems that most people are starting to feel like flat-out fat-bashing is not really justified, given the numerous studies that show you can be “overweight” and healthy, or be within the “healthy” weight range and still suffer from conditions normally attributed to obesity. Due to this, some of the criticism gone towards criticizing eating and exercise habits instead. However, the “obesity crisis” is almost always brought up (something that can only be applied to “overweight” people, due to the very definition of the word). And let’s be honest, which of these phrases do you hear more often directed towards thin people?:

“You shouldn’t eat that, and why don’t you go to the gym? It would be good for you.”

or

“I don’t see why you care about what you eat, you can eat whatever you want, and you don’t even need to go to the gym!

2. We only criticize people for their eating and exercise habits, but not for other factors linked to unhealthy weight gain. True, simple eating and exercise habits have the largest impact on health and weight, but factors such as too much stress and too little sleep have also been shown to lead to unhealthy weight gain. So while we criticize the (usually overweight) person for not adhering to a healthy diet and exercise regimen, we praise the habits of people who work 60+ hours and sleep 5 hours a night, despite the fact it makes it far more difficult for them to be healthy.

3. “Overweight” or “unfit” people are told it is all their fault and are demonized as being lazy slobs, when a variety of other factors, such as income level, workplace conditions, and mental conditions share a huge part of the responsibility. In the Western world, people who are poorer are more likely to be overweight due to unhealthiness, and it’s not a huge surprise. Organic food, fruits, and vegetables are usually more expensive and do less to satisfy hunger, while unhealthy foods high in fats, carbs, and sugar are cheaper and are more likely to keep you fuller for longer if you don’t have the ability to buy food as much as you need. Gym memberships can be expensive, as can daycare if your gym doesn’t offer it for free.

On the other side of the coin, the majority of middle class workers spend 40+ hours a week being sedentary. Not only does this make it difficult to find enough time in the day to be active enough to maintain a fit physique, but that much time being still can make you lethargic and tired while also lowering your metabolism.

And finally, there are people who overeat due to mental conditions such as depression (I have known a few personally myself). Eating disorders, whether they make you emaciated or obese, are nothing to harass someone for, but to instead have a genuine concern for them to get better, which leads to…

4. We don’t actually care about their health or well-being. If this were about health, we wouldn’t socially stigmatize those who don’t fit into the “fit” ideal and say they need to change no matter what. We wouldn’t support tactics that are mentally UNHEALTHY by instilling shame, anxiety, and depression in people who don’t fit the mold.

But most of all…

5. It’s no one’s business how another human being treats their own body. This isn’t even a pro-life/pro-choice debate where we can try to argue that another human being is involved. It’s the individual’s body, no one else’s, and there isn’t even a zygote present. Now, I already know the first defense against this:

“But there’s an obesity epidemic! These people are becoming a burden on our healthcare system, costing me money!”

First off, the healthcare debate and policy over the last couple of years show that we’re a country pretty adamant on not helping anyone else with their healthcare costs, and we do a pretty good job at not helping them. Furthermore, many health insurance companies charge their customers higher premiums if they are considered “overweight”, so it’s unlikely that the obesity epidemic is really costing the average citizen significantly. Finally, if we’re so outraged about the healthcare costs other people are inducing, then where’s the outrage towards those who suffer sports injuries? Those who suffer from organ failure due to anorexia or bulemia? Those who have wrecked their liver from a lifetime of drinking? What about all of us who chose the cheaper and more convenient route of eating genetically modified foods over organic and local foods, putting ourselves at risk for extremely detrimental long-term (and expensive) effects, such as cancer? All of these conditions can be argued to have been brought on by the person themselves, and yet the people who fall into these categories are not chastised and shamed for their choices.

 

If we really care about health, lets actually talk about health. Let’s look at lifestyles and conditions, rather than jumping to blame the individual. Let’s look at overall health, instead of just someone’s appearance. And let’s actually CARE about health rather than using it as an excuse to feel superior to others and better about ourselves.

If not any of that, then how about we be the individualistic country we seem to fight so hard to be, and stay out of other people’s business and lives.

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Written by genderlyspeaking

May 30, 2012 at 12:02 pm

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  1. Well said! There are many factors that tie into obesity that we cannot fathom, and also many people with “healthy” weight who get diseases (my dad has diabetes and he’s been active all of his life). You’re right that is more about shame and fitting society’s ideals than about health.

    alundeberg

    May 30, 2012 at 12:43 pm

  2. Love this! Especially the part about GMO food being a huge problem with our health.

    Michele

    June 3, 2012 at 10:32 pm

    • Yeah, I find it really ridiculous that we can try to act superior about how we are so “healthy” for not being overweight or obese, but when it comes down to health factors that don’t immediately affect appearance, it’s a mere afterthought. I guess it’s just a sad depiction on our society’s priorities… or plain shortsightedness. Thanks for reading, and thanks for the comment! :)

      femiblogged

      June 3, 2012 at 10:38 pm

  3. Quote: “these images “inspire body shame”, and maybe they do, but if that is something that gets people motivated to loose the weight than it has accomplished its goal.”

    Frankly, shame has never gotten me “motivated to lose the weight” it has typically made me run and hide and eat more (thank you Binge Eating Disorder).

    I wish it was for the last time, but it isn’t so here we go again: shame is NOT A MOTIVATOR, it’s just more shame.

    Lori Blough

    July 25, 2012 at 9:19 pm

    • Definitely! I know the idea of hitting rock-bottom is supposedly a motivator, but I think being fat and having society look down on you isn’t rock-bottom, it’s just depressing. Diabetes is rock bottom. Actually being physically sick to the point that it interferes with doing what you love is rock bottom. Shaming just, well, shames people, and as you’ve mentioned, can lead to some really self-destructive and unhealthy behaviors. I know it’s a cliche line, but you’re only going to really stick with something if YOU want it, not if someone else treats you like crap because you don’t.

      femiblogged

      July 26, 2012 at 7:59 pm

  4. Woot woot! Bang on.

    Robyn

    July 25, 2012 at 11:22 pm

  5. Great article! You made think of something I read last night, about how competitive bodybuilders step on stage in an attempt to present a very extreme version of physical health and strength, and yet they do so in a state that is paradoxically their most physically weak. You really cannot judge a person’s health by looking at them.

    That said, I think a lot of the concern trolling about health is exactly that: concern trolling. People don’t feel comfortable saying that they think fat people are gross (which they shouldn’t because seriously!), so they dress it up in the “acceptable” language of health and fitness. It also pisses me off on a personal level because I am a total fitness and athletics fanatic and I hate having this pursuit that I am passionate about turned into a vehicle for hate.

    Caitlin

    July 26, 2012 at 5:01 am

    • Exactly! Our image of health is not a one-size-fits-all, and our ideas of what looks is healthy is often not. It is pretty ironic how a lot of the fitness models are not, in the grand scheme of things, “healthy”, such as how body-builders really cut back on their cardio to add the most amount of muscle mass, even though having an efficient cardio system is the most closely-tied fitness aspect to longevity. It is a shame that the mainstream fitness industry is so focused on appearance when there is so much more that people could get from it (like truly appreciating their bodies for their function) if they left the ideals of having a “perfect” body behind.

      femiblogged

      July 26, 2012 at 8:06 pm

  6. [...] a result, when I come across a post like this, I can’t help but despair a little bit.  (Not because the post is bad; on the contrary, [...]

  7. “I guarantee you that there are a lot more people in the US who died from being too fat than from too skinny.” The irony is that studies have shown people who are modestly overweight live longer than thin folks. So much for that theory. :P

    Kudos for this article. I wrote about the topic recently as well, and it garnered a hot load of hate from Reddit, but whatever:http://msbehaved.com/2012/06/07/health-at-every-size-is-awesome-and-the-difference-between-being-thin-and-healthy/

    Keep up the good work!

    Ms. Behaved

    July 26, 2012 at 10:32 am

    • Ha, everything that questions societal standards gets hate from Reddit.
      And yeah, I think I heard about those studies before too. Great article by the way! Thanks for sharing!

      femiblogged

      July 26, 2012 at 8:17 pm

  8. Well said! It is such a simple thing to change the focus to functional fitness which allows you to do the things you love in your life with more ease and joy. I guess it just doesn’t sell as many magazines and gym memberships as body image focus. (sigh…)

    fatchicksings

    July 26, 2012 at 10:47 am

    • Yep, it’s just the old marketing tricks over and over again. The best way to sell a product is to create a problem/anxiety, and if you think there’s something about your body that you need to “fix”, you’ll be more likely to buy into it.

      femiblogged

      July 26, 2012 at 8:19 pm

  9. Excellent and concise! May I have your permission to share this piece (credited, of course) at a training I will be offering to my agency’s volunteers?

    River Aaland, M.A.
    Program Coordinator
    Ophelia’s Place
    1577 Pearl St. Suite 100
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    river@opheliasplace.net

    River Aaland

    July 26, 2012 at 12:26 pm

  10. I worked in the fitness industry for over 20 years and a few years ago became completely disillusioned with the way fitness became more about how our bodies LOOKED than how they WORKED. I’d hear too many trainers shaming their clients for eating “badly” and promoting the idea of working against your body instead of with it. Exercise should be something we do because we LOVE our bodies and want to be healthy, not as a way of punishing them for not looking the way society makes us feel we need to. THINspiration is NOT healthy..how about Healthspiration? problem is, we still judge people on esthetics. I went through a Bodybuilding phase where, with the help of a trainer, managed to sculpt my body to look like the models on the covers of fitness magazines and I can tell you that while I looked the part, I was actually MISERABLE and SICK. Skinny and Healthy are not always synonymous!

    fitvsfiction

    July 26, 2012 at 3:51 pm

    • Very true, and you’re right about how it has become more of a trend to work against your body rather than with it. It often sounds like people are fighting themselves when they go to the gym or restrict their eating, like they need to tame their “bad” bodies, rather than engaging in healthy behaviors because it increases the enjoyment they get from their lives and their bodies.

      femiblogged

      July 26, 2012 at 8:22 pm

  11. I think this is a great article. I wonder where the anger is for all of the food companies that are purposely creating unhealthy “food” that is addictive and then pretending it’s healthy and blaming people. I think this is a big part of the problem, but something so rarely talked about.

    Melissa

    July 27, 2012 at 1:19 am

  12. Ugh, I can’t tell you how many times people have said versions of the comment directed at thin people – the ““I don’t see why you care about what you eat, you can eat whatever you want, and you don’t even need to go to the gym!” type comment.

    I was on my way to the gym after work just the other day when a colleague asked me why I bothered. I may be naturally average in weight, but I work out for a whoooole lotta different reasons that have jack to do with thinness/size/weight. (Injury prevention and rehabilitation, general happiness quotient, energy and training for the zombie apocalypse, among others!).

    Interestingly enough, I have a male colleague (also fairly thin/average weight) who is often “in training” for various physically challenging things and will turn down sweets and work out in a similar pattern as I do, and won’t elicit any of the comments I get when I say no to the office donut kitty. Siiiigh!

    Sarah

    July 27, 2012 at 2:36 pm

  13. You hit the nail on the head. I’ve seen people online who are smaller than overweight, who would say things like “I was just eating hamburger, or eating my oreos” or “I have to go make my fried chicken brb” or “These skittles or this reeses is so good”, but will be under a article about a former overweight celebrity losing weight playing the “Health police” giving supposed tips when they don’t live by them theirselves. I’ve heard and seen my fair share of “I can eat this and that but my body is still amazing” comments from plenty people, and the people will come and highfive them. That pretty much sealed the deal about how good health has become more about having the perfect body, image or a body fashion show than actually addressing health issues. It bothers me that a lot of people know this health officials included but they refuse to address it. Imo we accept the superficial measurements of health, and it’s been proving time and time again that fat shaming doesn’t help but worsens the issue.
    Thinner people with bad diets are never addressed and told “Hey if you keep being lazy, eating this and that you’re gonna be unhealthy and die from heart disease, diabetes, high blood pressure. It’s really an eye opener when I see fitness shows of fat people in their late ages like 60′s and 70′s being told “You’re gonna die if you don’t change your fatness” like their fatness hasn’t killed them yet what’s the problem?

    Everytime there’s health discussions the average person rarely comments on the actual health issues that can affect someone, we’re more focused how to get sexy abs, perfect quads and that long lean look that will look good in that little black dress. When a fat person loses weight no one says “Oh I wonder what their blood pressure is, their heart rate is, their overall level are”, no we say “Wow they look amazing”! People see that and rebel. HAES is being ignored, when people are presented with images of a person of their size working out and being healthy it enables them to appreaciate the act of exercising because they feel “Hey I can do this, look like that and be healthy, I really enjoy being healthy for me, so I’m gonna make sure I do it and keep doing it for the rest of my life”. It’s not about health it was never about health it’s really superficially motivated and about profitable gain.

    Ebonychic205

    November 10, 2012 at 9:05 pm


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